However, you know that not all my encounters in
Togo are of a negative nature, and we can find happiness and joy in most every
situation. A highly positive part of my trip was spending time with my mother.
In the ten years since the creation of Alaffia, devoting time to family was not
possible. This trip, my mother and seventeen sisters and cousins traveled with
me to the many places I had to be, and it brought much comfort seeing them
every morning and catching up on lost time. I should tell that you that I did
put on a few extra pounds due to my mother's cooking.
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With my mother, Abiba Agbanga, near Lomé, Togo. |
Another encouraging element was the direct
positive words we heard from people who have been touched by Alaffia. The
following are excerpts from the speeches of the president of an Alaffia shea
nut collective, a student who received a bicycle and her mother, and a high
school student body representative.
Amama Amadou,
president of the Alaffia women's shea nut collective of Bowouda:
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Amama Amadou, president of the Bowouda Shea Nut
Collective.
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Bouwouda Shea Nut Collective, with Alaffia's
Cooperative Manager, Bouwouda, Togo. |
"Before
coming to buy shea nuts, Alaffia invited us to give the market price, then
Alaffia added 20% to this price. Everyone received her own receipt and money
for her own nuts. We sold over seven tons of shea nuts to Alaffia, and together
we have saved over 400,000 fcfa [$1,000]. In the past, we got paid little by
little for each bowl that we had. Today, the buying process is organized, and
everyone gets their whole payment at once. I thank you and I plead you to
continue your support in our village in order to reduce poverty. This year,
thanks to the 20%, every one of us has paid the school fees for our children.
We thank you very much for the support you have given to the women of Bowouda.
You will be blessed for your efforts"
Tiekoa Lare,
student:
"Now that I have been given a bike, I am free. When I did not have a bike,
I was always late to school. Now, I am free. I get up, I sweep the yard, I wash
the dishes before leaving for school, but I am still on time."
Tiekoa's mother:
"Before, my daughter suffered a lot to go to school. She was forced to go
hungry (because she could not return home during lunch). Sometimes I was able
to find 25 francs [10 cents], and I gave it to her to by lunch. And in the
evening, she returned very late, from 7 to 8 pm, because of the distance. Now,
with her bike, everything has changed. She gets to school on time, and returns
early after school. Thank you for this precious gift. Thank you very
much."
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Tiekoa Lare with her family outside their home. |
Student from
Kadambara High School:
“Allow me to speak on
behalf of the Kadambara High School – in the name of the teaching staff, the
parents, students, and particularly the students who have received bicycles –
in relaying our gratitude for benches and bicycles your organization has given
us. By making these donations, Alaffia has helped improve learning conditions
in our school. We promise to make good use of these materials for our
growth. May God Almighty protect you. Long live Alaffia and long live education
in Kadambara!”
As positive and dignified the above words are,
they also bring a heavy weight of responsibility which makes returning to
American life difficult. We can continue to bring brightness and hope to
Togolese individuals, families and communities, but our ability to do this
depends on an uncertain market. It brings pain to my heart to see the faces of
those who are so grateful and so desperately in need when I cannot promise the
help we provide will always be there, since there is no guarantee that
Alaffia's sales last year will be realized this year and the years to come. The
only things that are certain is that my life will forever be sacrificed for the
empowerment of all disadvantaged people, and that even if Alaffia was to disappear
today from the face of the earth, the support and the opportunities that each
and everyone one of you have given us in the past ten years has profoundly
impacted my communities for generations to come.
With all my heart, I thank you for all you have
done in the support of Alaffia, and I once again wish you a healthy and happy
2013.
Humbly Yours,
Olowo-n'djo Tchala
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Walking with Alaffia cooperative members, Sokodé. |
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Bicycle recipients
line up to greet me and our guests in Sokodé, Togo. |
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Alaffia cooperative members sing their welcome. |